Faith that is truly lived must grow

Many women who care deeply about their faith eventually reach a point where they feel forced to choose between living authentically and abandoning the faith that once guided them…

I believe there is a third way.

Spiritual Life Coaching provides a safe place to:

  • ask honest questions

  • examine inherited beliefs

  • integrate faith with real life

  • move forward with clarity and peace

You don’t have to choose between rigid certainty and abandoning faith altogether.

There is another path.

I faced this pressure myself, and I watched many friends and loved ones face the same painful choice:

  • leave the faith traditions of our childhood and young adulthood or

  • decide that God must not be real—or not be good.

I found myself walking a painful path—letting go of beliefs that couldn’t survive my lived experience of a good and gracious Creator, one who is big enough to handle anger, fear, and every honest question. I’ve discovered that a faith strong enough for the second half of life must be both honest and spacious.

  • It must be able to hold questions.

  • It must be able to grow.

  • And it must be able to support the life we are actually living.

Tonya Griffith is a Spiritual Life Coach who works with women navigating faith, relationships, and life transitions. She brings years of experience in leadership, mentoring, and personal growth work, along with a deep interest in spiritual formation and faith reconstruction. Tonya also volunteers in jail chaplaincy ministry and lives in Wenatchee, Washington with her family